July 4, 2009 3 Comments
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They say that every good thing comes to an end. That must mean that no matter how good something might seem, it is bound to be over sooner or later. I guess relationships are no different. Every single relationship will end until the time that someone comes along and you decide to spend the rest of your life with him. The prince charming, so to speak.

More often than not, though, the relationship is bound for doom and we are left to try and figure out why our heart was broken, which isn’t even the hardest part in my opinion. The hardest part is the actual Getting over him. Getting past the pain, the rejection.. whatever it is that ended the relationship and getting over the relationship itself.

Moving on and getting over him may not be easy, but here are a few things you can must do to finally begin to get over that guy.

1. Try your very best to avoid anything and everything that has something to do with him. That means not going to restaurants you used to frequent together, pleacs you know he enjoyed going to. Simply avoid him. they say out of site = out of mind. Usually, anyway.

2. Eliminate any possible way of contacting him. Remove his number from your contacts list and do not call. Block him from calling you or better yet get a new number. Make it so that neither one of you can contact each other through any means. It will be easier to get over someone if you do not talk to them and have no way of contacting them.

3. Kill the adoration. It’s over between the two of you. Your life is going to go on without him. Stop looking at old pictures, and things that remind you of him and stop listening to “your song” and stuff like that. It will only be worse in the long run if you continue to give him the attention he no longer deserves.

4. Go out with your friends. Have a good time. Enjoy yourself and try to forget about being hurt.

5. Let it out. Talk to someone, like a close friend, about how you feel. Don’t keep it all inside. Once you let go of the emotions you’ll be able to let go of him altogether.

It’s funny that I sit here writing an article about getting over your ex boyfriend yet I can’t seem to get over mine. This is borderline hypocrisy. I suck.

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