Some people are just mean…
February 29th, 2008 8 Comments»Wordcount: 522
What is it in people that makes them the way they are? I know I’m not the nicest person in the world, but I consider myself a pretty nice individual, and respectful of other people’s feelings. So, why is it that certain people aren’t respectful of mine? This has a point, I guess. There’s this girl that for some reason I had befriended awhile ago via the internet. It’s not like she was my best friend or even one of my closest friends.. but still. She’s way into livejournal like I am, and since I had a couple of cute usernames and she asked for one, I obliged her and let her use one of my journals. Well, everything was fine (or so I thought), she would randomly mention me in her livejournal sometimes.. saying that I was a good mom and whatnot. I really don’t know what happened, but suddenly I hear from a friend that she isn’t using the livejournal I gave her anymore because she hates me or something. I’m not really sure where this all stemmed from, but the bottom line is, she seems to have had a total personality overhaul in the last month or so, and to be quite honest, the things she said about me hurt my feelings. I’ve never done anything to this girl except be nice, and I’m really shocked at some of the horrible things she’s said about me. I know I shouldn’t let it bother me, but it does. I mean she literally took personal things I told her and plastered them up for people to read, and then used the stuff that I told her in confidence against me.. to make me seem like this horrible person. It all seems to stem from the fact that she thinks I lie about my son being smart or something. I don’t know what else it could have come from, really. She would sometimes ask me for advice about her child, and I’d give my opinions. She claims I told her what to wear.. which is absurd. She claims I lie about my child being in the gifted and talented program. Why in the world would I lie? It’s not my fault that her child is so far behind on the developmental scale. I haven’t put her down for that. No one person is perfect. So why the attack on me, I wonder? It really does seem like she’s jealous. She even has the nerve to bring up the fact that I buy my son nice things and talk about it in my livejournal. WHAT? Are you kidding?
Really, I could go on and on with her flaws, and point out all the ridiculous things I know about her, but I am not that childish and petty. I hope whatever is so bad in her life that makes this way gets better. For her child’s sake at least.
I know I didn’t go into great detail, but there’s really no need. I am not that childish. She knows who she is.
Hell, I think she might be more bipolar than I am.. lol.
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God. She sounds like a major bitch who took advantage of you. I can’t believe she’s putting you down for being proud of your son. He sounds like an awesome kid, and hell, I’d be proud of him too. Don’t let her get you down, though. *hugs*
Thanks Josie. I’m not letting her get me down. I am just rather shocked is all. I confided in her at one time and I really had no idea she would start using my personal issues as her own little vendetta. To me it just seems like she is jealous.
I am very proud of my son. He’s an amazing kid and deserves every ounce of praise that I give him.
How are your kiddos doing?
Wow, that sounds ridiculous, honestly, some people just have more issues than you can poke a stick at. It’s good to see you taking the higher moral ground when plenty of people would rather ‘get even’. It’s a shame this woman decided to throw your friendship out the window, and she honestly seems unstable, I hope that she snaps out of it, not only for her sake but for the sake of her son and any other children she has in life.
Just take her childish crap with a grain of salt, in the end the jokes on her for losing an obviously good and generous friend in you.
Thanks Ashie! I just think she might be jealous.. I mean I’m not saying that she has anything to be jealous of, but I just don’t get it. Either way, you’re right.. it IS her loss.
Wow, now that’s just awful. People can be such asses sometimes, and it seems like they get that way for no logical reason at all. Gah. I’m sorry you have to deal with this.
Yes, they can be asses. I still am confused by her, but I’m just letting it roll off me cause I really don’t care for internet drama. I outgrew that mess years ago. Hopefully one day she will, too. I’m off to read your most recent blogs now.
I know the girl you’re talking about. I was in the chat when she started talking about you, telling everyone how she told you off and how you were basically calling Amy, Ezra’s girlfriend, stupid, and how you were saying that she would never know that you were the one who took her livejournal, when meanwhile you TOLD her right to her face that you took it, and gave her another in return.
That girl is NOTHING but a liar and a story teller. She’s a drama magnet, only knows how to talk about herself, or speak bad about other people — things that aren’t even TRUE.
I don’t know WHY or WHAT her problem is, but I steer completely clear of her, unless it’s to tell her off in a chat whenever I see her opening her fat lying mouth — which is what I did when she talked about the whole situation with the livejournals, and telling everyone how she stood up for ALLLL the helpless people you take from, even after admitting that you gave her a livejournal.
She has no spine and she sickens me.
Yeah, I really don’t know what is wrong with this girl. I realize a lot of people who spend that much time on the internet probably do so for a reason. Apparently I was fooled into thinking she wasn’t a psychotic delusional piece of shit. Oh, well.
As far as Amy goes. She’s a really nice person, and I don’t know where this Dani bitch gets off saying I ever said anything of that sort. I told Amy what I did, and then I offered to make amends just for the simple fact that I think she’s a nice person.
I ignored what Amy had said about Dani because like I said.. I was fooled. She was pretty dead-on accurate about her though. Dani is a sad little person.
Anyways, thanks for your input. Have a nice day.