I don’t know where to begin.

October 5th, 2007 25 Comments
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I’m currently working on a new “section” of my website that will be devoted to the topic of emotional abuse. I don’t know when I’ll have it done, but it’s something that affects my life on a daily basis.. and maybe talking to other people about it might help me get through it. Or get out of it. I have given up on changing him, it’s not going to happen. I have also given up on blaming him, because I am the dumb fuck who stayed.. so I guess I am to blame too. I don’t want to get too deep into this right now though, I really don’t feel like hearing it for what he would say is an inappropriate subject.

Anyways, changing the subject.. this is in response to the dumb cunt who said I am lying about my son being able to read at the age of 7. Go take a look at his report card. Keep in mind, this is last year’s report card when he was in 1st grade.. report cards haven’t been issued yet this year. I’m sorry if you feel that it’s so unbelievable, but I won’t resort to degrading your child just for the sake of argument. I won’t stoop to your level. My child is in the gifted and talented program, he has been since kindergarten. Every year his teacher has had to modify his curriculum because he is so far ahead of everyone else. So, yeah. I’m lying about my child being able to read.

On another note, Grey’s Anatomy tonight was just great. I love that show. I seriously hope that this Izzie and George thing doesn’t work out. It’s so retarded. And as far as Meredith and McDreamy go.. honestly, everyone knows that they won’t be able to ever have the “perfect, happy relationship” cause then the show would get kind of boring, wouldn’t it? I just wish they would bring back Burke. Huge mistake getting rid of him. Patrick Dempsey is such a hottie. (Just had to throw that in there). :P

I guess I’ll leave it at that for now. I have alot to do with upgrading my collective, and some other site related things I want to get done. I’m working on some new brushes and stuff, too. Also, I have a new hostee. Her name is Lisa and she’s really sweet. Go check out her site and show her some love.. /blessed.unsexy.net.


Commenters: (Olivia), Christine, Eilidh, Irene, Jaleesa, Julie, Katy, Kelly, Lianna, Piper, Thao




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Comment by Piper
2007-10-06 10:28:41

I wish they would bring back Burke too. Something just feels off without him! :(

 
Comment by Julie
2007-10-06 15:32:10

Wow, I can’t believe someone would think you’re lying about your kid. Who do they think they are!!! I’m sorry you have to go through such pain and writing about it and all is a good idea, it may help you and others too, just by reading about emotional abuse.

 
Comment by Angela
2007-10-06 16:30:29

You are exactly right. It just feels “off”. I don’t like it in the least. I mean I still like the show alot, but I honestly think that they are going to lose quite a few viewers because of this.

 
Comment by Angela
2007-10-06 16:32:18

Yeah, it makes me wonder what kind of levels SHE would stoop to, just to get attention. But whatever. lol.

I am hoping it does help. I’m in one of these weird addictive/emotionally abusive relationships. I know that actually admitting you have a problem is supposed to be half the battle with addiction, but it’s still pretty hard, even knowing what I know.

 
Comment by Kelly
2007-10-08 03:42:41

Ignore that dumb shit - I could read at 7. :)

 
Comment by Lianna
2007-10-08 04:56:35

What an idiot.

I’m sure there are children out there that can read at 7, maybe not at your son’s level, but they can! What a stupid dumb sh*t.

Anyway, I’ve never seen an episode of Grey’s Anatomy. I never even get to watch anything on TV since my little brothers are always watching. Damn them!

 
Comment by Angela
2007-10-08 14:55:46

That really sucks, cause Grey’s Anatomy is really a good tv show. You should smack your little brothers around lol. Just kidding.
:P

 
Comment by Angela
2007-10-08 14:56:50

Me too. By 3rd grade I was reading college books and had to have my school work adjusted because I was getting bored in class. By 5th grade I was in a tutoring program.. where I tutored 6th and 7th graders. Maybe she’s just jealous. :P

 
Comment by Thao
2007-10-09 15:07:59

Emotional abuse is tough. It’s worse than physical abuse sometimes because it’s quiet and can be hidden. You’re tough, things will work out. And men won’t change unless they want to. I know women always have that idea about how they could be THE ONE to change a man, but unfortunately men are more content finding something who will accept them even if they are with THE ONE. I gave up and then found someone who did because he knew it would better him.

I can’t believe that chick accused you of lying! Apparently she had time to waste. I wonder what she has to say now.

I agree–I don’t like that Izzie/George thing, ugh. And for sure, BRING BACK BURKE. It’s so weird now. How do you like Private Practice?

Awww you are too sweet! I am glad you like my apartment design. I’ve always wanted to be an interior designer, oh well, can’t do everything! Yeah I want the Yorkie badly, but I think I’ll wait on it. Wedding and house come first!

 
Comment by Jaleesa
2007-10-10 06:48:17

People think you’re lying about your child being able to read at 7?? What in the world would they have to say about the fact that I was able to read at 4?

It really makes me wonder why it’s so unbelievable for people to be smart, it really does. And for someone to come on your blog saying that is horrible.

Ugh. >_

 
Comment by Jaleesa
2007-10-10 06:48:53

Sorry it cut off. I said at the end that it’s admirable you’re doing something about emotional abuse. It’s very real.

 
Comment by Eilidh
2007-10-10 11:14:23

Well the new sections sounds like it will be useful to you - but also for other people, I hope it’s helpful :)
But whoah, that is an impressive report card :)

 
Comment by Irene
2007-10-10 14:54:41

I think the only time someone degrades someone else’s abilities is because they’re jealous. I was able to read at a very young age as well, as I commend any parent who encourages their kids to read, even before they “think” they’re ready. Instead of being rude to you, this person should have been commending you.

I hate people. XD
x despair

 
Comment by Angela
2007-10-10 18:03:56

Yeah, I mean the person that did it has a child of her own.. you’d think being a parent she wouldn’t stoop to that level. But whatever. Thanks for the comment :)

 
Comment by Angela
2007-10-10 18:04:26

Yes it is impressive. I’m very proud of him. :P

 
Comment by Angela
2007-10-10 18:06:41

Sorry about you getting cut off, wordpress does that for some reason when you use certain characters.

Emotional abuse IS very real.. and coming from someone who has been physically abused and emotionally abused (not by the same people).. I can honestly say that the emotional is worse. It leaves scars on your heart and in your mind, that you keep with you sometimes for a long time.

 
Comment by Angela
2007-10-10 18:08:21

You are so right. Men don’t change (unless they want to). My ex doesn’t seem to care enough about me to make certain changes. It’s hard and I love him alot, but I can’t keep subjecting myself to this pain day after day.

Yes, your apartment rocks hard. I love everything you’ve done. :)

 
Comment by Christine
2007-10-11 04:22:57

Oh lord, I thought I was the only “lier” on the internet? People say that just to get under your skin or in an attempt to bully you into posting things that you don’t want to (pictures, information, etc). Maybe that person can’t read? Or they just can barely slide by? Irene is right; they’re jealous. Just out of curiosity, did they leave their real site and name? Most people who like to insult others don’t or they put in someone else’s to start things.

Yeah, I think it’s fab-u-lose that you’ve got a little genius going. =)

 
Comment by (Olivia)
2007-10-11 13:51:50

You’re not to blame. It’s something he is doing to you. It is dumb to stay, but that doesn’t give him the right to abuse you in anyway.
LOL @ whoever said your son couldn’t read. I learned to read at freakin’ 4.
If your child is a lot more advanced than others in his class, maybe he should go to a school for the gifted, or at least be bumped up a grade. He should get credit for his intelligence. Even though the teacher is altering his curriculum, that’s not going to show on transcripts people outside the school see.
I don’t watch Grey’s Anatomy… Good luck with the updates.

 
Comment by Angela
2007-10-12 01:14:11

Christine, I think she just wanted attention… because Yes, she did put her website. I removed it of course. I’m not getting the cunt any extra traffic, that’s for sure. She actually blogged about me because I left her a nasty (put private) message… attention whore much?

Don’t worry about people calling you a liar. Let them think what they want. People like that are usually worthless anyways. :P

 
Comment by Angela
2007-10-12 01:21:18

You are right, it is dumb to stay.. and I dunno what I’m doing at this point but I really doubt that we have a real future.. if he keeps it up. He says he’s not gonna change. Heh.

My son is alot more advanced, and the subject of skipping a grade has come up, but I honestly am not sure that it’s a good idea. I mean he’s being challenged more now that his curriculum is altered a little bit. I just don’t want him to feel pressured, and I want him to enjoy school.

You should check out Grey’s Anatomy at least once.. ;x

 
Comment by Katy
2007-10-12 01:55:19

Wow I’m so proud of your son for you! =P You raised him well. I hope you write more about him as he grows up, it’ll be so interesting!

 
Comment by Christine
2007-10-12 02:26:31

haha. You rule, you know that? =) Seriously. You gotta love it when people take private messages and make them public.

You know, your son being able to read at a young age isn’t that out of the realm of possibility. It’s happened many times before. Now when you start blogging about alien abductions and talking animals, we may have to call in the men in white coats carrying butterfly nets. xD

 
Comment by Angela
2007-10-12 12:12:53

Thanks. I try really hard. :)

 
Comment by Angela
2007-10-12 12:18:06

Yeah.. I’ll never understand the way some people like “need” drama. How boring their lives must be. I mean hell, my life is pretty boring, but it’s also pretty full. I don’t have time nor want for such antics as that.

Oh, and I guess I forgot to mention it in my last post.. but last week I was abducted by aliens.. green ones. And they also abducted a sheep, and a donkey.. and we all sat around playing poker with the Mad Hatter. The donkey won. He said I can’t play poker for shit. :( True Story.

 

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