Comments on: Melancholy…. Missing my friend http://unsexy.net/2007/09/17/melancholy-missing-my-friend/ Just my personal web log! Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:27:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Angela http://unsexy.net/2007/09/17/melancholy-missing-my-friend/#comment-541 Angela Tue, 25 Sep 2007 03:21:02 +0000 http://unsexy.net/?p=92#comment-541 Hi Josie, It is hard when you lose someone.. and you are right, I don't think you ever fully recover or get back to "normal". I lost a very close cousin nearly 10 years ago and everyday my heart still aches and I miss her dearly. It's something I know I will feel for the rest of my life. I have a 7 year old boy, and he just went back to school 3 weeks ago as well. It takes a little while to get back into that routine.. for him as well as me, lol. I am glad that school is back in session though, honestly. And a birthday too. No wonder you are exhausted. LOL. Hi Josie,

It is hard when you lose someone.. and you are right, I don’t think you ever fully recover or get back to “normal”. I lost a very close cousin nearly 10 years ago and everyday my heart still aches and I miss her dearly. It’s something I know I will feel for the rest of my life.

I have a 7 year old boy, and he just went back to school 3 weeks ago as well. It takes a little while to get back into that routine.. for him as well as me, lol. I am glad that school is back in session though, honestly. And a birthday too. No wonder you are exhausted. LOL.

]]> By: Josie http://unsexy.net/2007/09/17/melancholy-missing-my-friend/#comment-540 Josie Tue, 25 Sep 2007 02:14:42 +0000 http://unsexy.net/?p=92#comment-540 Angela, So sorry you're missing Tabitha. I do understand what it's like to have someone taken from your life so suddenly, and I feel your pain. I wish I could over some tried and true wisdom here, but in reality the pain of losing someone never goes away. Some days are better than others, yes, but there's always that emptiness that just makes you long for their companionship. *hugs* Sorry about Brent too. I didn't know him, but it's always sad when someone passes. And you hit it on the head--The good ones are always taken too soon. And, no, I do not want to be perfect. Perfection in itself is imperfect, really, isn't it? I mean, doesn't everyone strive for something in their life to go better? Surely even those people we view as 'perfect' have their insecurities as well... Also, whoops, will be working on my site again soon. Had to get the boy into a routine of going to school (3 weeks now, woohoo), and the daughter's birthday zapped what little energy I had left from my system. Take care ~~ Josie Angela,

So sorry you’re missing Tabitha. I do understand what it’s like to have someone taken from your life so suddenly, and I feel your pain. I wish I could over some tried and true wisdom here, but in reality the pain of losing someone never goes away. Some days are better than others, yes, but there’s always that emptiness that just makes you long for their companionship. *hugs*

Sorry about Brent too. I didn’t know him, but it’s always sad when someone passes. And you hit it on the head–The good ones are always taken too soon.

And, no, I do not want to be perfect. Perfection in itself is imperfect, really, isn’t it? I mean, doesn’t everyone strive for something in their life to go better? Surely even those people we view as ‘perfect’ have their insecurities as well…

Also, whoops, will be working on my site again soon. Had to get the boy into a routine of going to school (3 weeks now, woohoo), and the daughter’s birthday zapped what little energy I had left from my system. Take care ~~ Josie

]]> By: karen. http://unsexy.net/2007/09/17/melancholy-missing-my-friend/#comment-539 karen. Tue, 25 Sep 2007 00:06:12 +0000 http://unsexy.net/?p=92#comment-539 Hey! I'm so very sorry to bother you in your personal space here but I followed the link from your once-active GreatestJournal.com account "ego". I was wondering whether you are still using the username or are ever planning to use it again? I would love to use it if you could be kind enough to grant me that opportunity. I completely understand if you don't want to do this but I just thought it wouldn't hurt to ask! I'm sorry again for intruding into your personal space! (: Thank you for hearing me out, Karen! Hey! I’m so very sorry to bother you in your personal space here but I followed the link from your once-active GreatestJournal.com account “ego”. I was wondering whether you are still using the username or are ever planning to use it again? I would love to use it if you could be kind enough to grant me that opportunity. I completely understand if you don’t want to do this but I just thought it wouldn’t hurt to ask! I’m sorry again for intruding into your personal space! (:

Thank you for hearing me out,
Karen!

]]> By: Angela http://unsexy.net/2007/09/17/melancholy-missing-my-friend/#comment-538 Angela Mon, 24 Sep 2007 07:34:34 +0000 http://unsexy.net/?p=92#comment-538 Thank you Julie. Thank you Julie.

]]> By: Angela http://unsexy.net/2007/09/17/melancholy-missing-my-friend/#comment-537 Angela Mon, 24 Sep 2007 00:03:42 +0000 http://unsexy.net/?p=92#comment-537 The Departed is my favorite movie of all time! I am obsessed with it, too. Also, Leo is hot. lol :( The Departed is my favorite movie of all time! I am obsessed with it, too. Also, Leo is hot. lol :(

]]> By: Anna http://unsexy.net/2007/09/17/melancholy-missing-my-friend/#comment-536 Anna Sun, 23 Sep 2007 23:51:53 +0000 http://unsexy.net/?p=92#comment-536 I'm sorry to hear about your friend. I know that losing a loved one is rough. I lost my grandfather back in '99 and it was tough for me. Thanks for your comment on my blog! There are actually supposed to be six "Saw" movies from what I heard from a friend. I dunno how long they can stretch it out; how the hell many plans does Jigsaw have for people? Really... Blood Diamond was excellent - I enjoyed that, as well - and another movie I saw around that time with Leo in it was "The Departed." Don't even get me started on how much I was <b>obsessed</b> with that movie... I saw Type O earlier this year and they were phenomenal, so I bet the Halloween show is going to be stellar. I can't wait. I’m sorry to hear about your friend. I know that losing a loved one is rough. I lost my grandfather back in ‘99 and it was tough for me.

Thanks for your comment on my blog! There are actually supposed to be six “Saw” movies from what I heard from a friend. I dunno how long they can stretch it out; how the hell many plans does Jigsaw have for people? Really…

Blood Diamond was excellent - I enjoyed that, as well - and another movie I saw around that time with Leo in it was “The Departed.” Don’t even get me started on how much I was obsessed with that movie…

I saw Type O earlier this year and they were phenomenal, so I bet the Halloween show is going to be stellar. I can’t wait.

]]> By: Julie http://unsexy.net/2007/09/17/melancholy-missing-my-friend/#comment-535 Julie Sun, 23 Sep 2007 18:05:33 +0000 http://unsexy.net/?p=92#comment-535 *HUGS* I'm sorry hon. It's so sad to lose a friend, and you're right, the good ones are taken too soon. *HUGS* I’m sorry hon. It’s so sad to lose a friend, and you’re right, the good ones are taken too soon.

]]> By: Angela http://unsexy.net/2007/09/17/melancholy-missing-my-friend/#comment-534 Angela Sun, 23 Sep 2007 02:25:13 +0000 http://unsexy.net/?p=92#comment-534 Yea, Rich.. you're right. It's hard though, in the heat of the moment when you say certain things that you later regret.. or that you can't take back. We are all human, sometimes we let our emotions get the best of us. It's one of many ugly things about people. Yea, Rich.. you’re right. It’s hard though, in the heat of the moment when you say certain things that you later regret.. or that you can’t take back. We are all human, sometimes we let our emotions get the best of us. It’s one of many ugly things about people.

]]> By: Rich http://unsexy.net/2007/09/17/melancholy-missing-my-friend/#comment-533 Rich Sat, 22 Sep 2007 22:32:03 +0000 http://unsexy.net/?p=92#comment-533 Quiet i deep blogg you have here today Ang. I know what your saying though. I try not to leave anything on a bad note cause you may never get a chance to change it. Its easy to run from things but its very hard to forget or even ignore. I say the best solution is that if you ave a problem you should sort it there and then, and never delay something that needs to be done. I dunno if you understood that but i knew what i meant lol xx Quiet i deep blogg you have here today Ang. I know what your saying though. I try not to leave anything on a bad note cause you may never get a chance to change it. Its easy to run from things but its very hard to forget or even ignore. I say the best solution is that if you ave a problem you should sort it there and then, and never delay something that needs to be done. I dunno if you understood that but i knew what i meant lol

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]]> By: Angela http://unsexy.net/2007/09/17/melancholy-missing-my-friend/#comment-532 Angela Fri, 21 Sep 2007 10:04:30 +0000 http://unsexy.net/?p=92#comment-532 Thank you. I am sorry you had to go through something like that. It's only natural you'd be depressed. Hopefully you had some support from friends or family.. having someone to talk to does help. I don't really have anyone that I feel I can talk to about this, and I think that's one of the reasons it's so hard for me to deal with. Thank you. I am sorry you had to go through something like that. It’s only natural you’d be depressed. Hopefully you had some support from friends or family.. having someone to talk to does help. I don’t really have anyone that I feel I can talk to about this, and I think that’s one of the reasons it’s so hard for me to deal with.

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