I am sorry that you are having emotional problems! Girl, It’s like the ryme we all grew up on “Inny miny, miney moe - Catch a dood up by his toe, If he hollers, LET HIM GO” I think he hollerd, yelled and kicked! It will get beter. Visit me somtimes =>

I don’t know what’s going on, but I’m sorry. Guys don’t always seem to know or care about girls emotions. Have your tryed talking to him?

I dont know what’s happened but it’s something about a guy, thats obvious. I’ve had a guy problem recently too, but not quite the same as yours. It seems that your problem’s bigger than mines, and I think by now you should have talked to him about HIS problem and why he’s doing that to you. No girl deserves that! Either talk to him about it or just let him go… I know that I know nothing about this but that’s the only help I could give you now

When a relationship gets that stressful I usually feel it’s time to break up. You shouldn’t have to deal with that nonsense if it’s a relationship worth being in. I hope you figure out what is best for you. Good luck.

I’ve actually never heard that version before, but it made me laugh.

I have no idea what is going on but it sounds very difficult and stressful. Men can act like total asses sometimes but if it’s happening a lot then it might be time to start thinking about if you want to be with someone who hurts you so much. My fiance and I went through some very hard times and there was so many times i wanted to leave but i stuck it out and today after being together 7 years everything has changed and we are getting married. It all depends on if you can handle everything. If you believe he will change then stick it out if not then get out of the relationship. I hope you work this out and you feel better being hurt is awful.

LMAO! You never heard it becasue I made that up when my bf wanted to act a fool!!!! Thanks for returing the love! TTYL.

wow, if this guy makes you feel like this all the time you need to get rid of him!

Every guy tries to make it sound like the women is crazy, I hate it so much.

As I was reading this post I asked myself, “Did I write this?” until I got to the part where he talks bad about you to other people.

You and I are in the same boat except in that last one. Men are men, you know? Maybe he’s just confused about things between you and him. Just talk to him about it, let him know how you feel.

And about the I LOVE YOU part, many people say it but not trully mean it. So when he says it, ask him if he means it, and how he’s able to say it when all he does is hurt you.

Communication is the key to that pain, girl. I hope you feel better.

ps… if you wanna vent out or something, you can always contact me, seems like we’re in a very similar situation right now.

I’m not sure what’s been happening but I hope things get better and he stops playing games and especially stops saying bad things about you to other people. That’s just not on!

I guess, you should ask him those questions, and if he can’t give you a rational answer, then maybe.. just maybe, it’s time to move on.

I don’t know what’s going on, but maybe he doesn’t know that he’s making you feel this way? Guys can be incredibly dense sometimes when it comes to women. Maybe you should talk to him.

I feel your pain girl, I’m going through the EXACT same thing with my man. Hope everything works out for you.

You are right about that. Men ARE men. I really have tried to talk to him, and I try to communicate. I do realize that I’m not totally innocent and sometimes I guess I do make the situation worse, but all in all I don’t know how else to respond when he acts like that. I mean it hurts my feelings.. what am I supposed to do? Smile and laugh and pretend like I don’t care? Grr.. Anyways, thanks! I appreciate it, and I might take you up on that.

Yeah it’s really wrong. I am loyal to him in that aspect. I don’t go behind his back and trash talk him to make myself look or feel better. Oh well, we are getting along now, so I guess that’s good, right? ;P

Agreed. Guys CAN be incredibly dense. It seems like somewhere in their lives they all took some class on how to be stupid assholes.. and they all passed with flying colors! LOL.

He doesn’t make me feel this way ALL the time, but alot of the time. I don’t know why he does. And the whole trying to make me out to be insane and like everything is my fault.. That’s so freaking frustrating. You can’t help who you love though, you know? You just gotta learn to deal with it or move on.. I’m trying to deal. I dunno if I can, but I am trying.